Monday, April 25, 2011

This hate needs to stop

There is not much to say about how I feel about this. I fear many times over about Trinity's future, but I know she'll have it easier. Mostly because she'll not have to fear the changes of her body due to puberty. She has brothers and parents that love and protect her. I wish I could hold this beautiful young lady in my arms. I wish I could go back to the day and wrap myself around her and hide her from the pain. I can't unfortunately, but I will do it for my beautiful daughter in place of that. And maybe, just maybe, the tightness of my embrace and the amount of love might spread to this girl as well as others feeling the pain of hate.

Attack on transgender woman

Friday, April 22, 2011

Girls are harder...

I'm sure many, with daughters, have heard this comment and I was no different when Trinity transitioned and I told my family. The only thing is now is that I've known her as a boy and a girl. Hell, I went through the terrible twos and horrific threes before she transitioned. And I'm going to be honest, I haven't seen a difference between her and her brother, Lucien. They are only 17 months apart and I am able to say, they both make me want to rip my hair out sometimes. And that brings me to say, girls or boys are not easier or harder. Kids in general are hard and sometimes easy, like, when they're sleeping.

I was once asked if I felt like Trinity would be double hard to deal with because of her split brain. Yes, supposedly she has a split brain because she's transgender. Lovely. But my answer is always the same when I hear someone say that boys are easier than girls or that girls are easier than boys. She's as hard to deal with as her brother is. And I do hate comparing children. They all suck on some days! :D

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

A little peace, means a whole lot of happiness

I have recently posted how things could be better for how we're treated by family and I guess the goddess heard our prayers because no one has given us any trouble. We've been just living happily and that's the way it should be!